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    Wednesday
    Aug202008

    CREATING CULTURES OF ACCOUNTABILITY 

    “Build a Culture of Accountability: Five Ways to Enhance the Level of Accountability in Your Organizations” (Market Watch, August 18, 2008).

    The headline might grab your attention, but the first paragraph is old, tired, hostage-oriented rhetoric: “Holding people accountable for results is the foundation of an organization's performance; it's management 101. Yet it appears there is a gap between knowing (this) and doing (this).”

    This may be management 101, but it is an articulation of the problem, not a way to increase accountability.

    The idea that we can hold other people accountable is a myth of gigantic proportion, and it is a serious impediment to business success. To think we can hold anyone but ourselves accountable denies a fundamental reality of human existence. Those we think we are “holding accountable” are deciding for themselves what to make of our demands: 

     They choose the appearance of compliance – appearing to be accountable while skating as close to the edge of non-compliance as possible. Outright insubordination may be too risky, but protest is at the heart of their action.
    Sunday
    Aug172008

    HONEST, YES. BUT WHY BRUTAL?

    After six hours of “brutally honest” conversations between quarterback Brett Favre and Green Bay Packers management, they parted ways.

    • Jim Collins, who authored From Good to Great, says one of the key differences between good companies and great ones is their ability to “confront the brutally honest facts.”

    • One company even uses the term “brutal” in its statement of values:

    CandorWe believe in "brutal conversations"; the ability to be honest, direct and challenging with each other while always being professional. We will never tell you "what you want to hear", but we will tell you what you need to hear.

    What does the word “brutal” add to that statement? And how do you square “being professional” with being brutal? Let’s look behind the cliché and see it for what it is.

    Merriam-Webster defines brutal like this: Befitting a brute: as a: grossly ruthless or unfeeling b: cruel,   cold-blooded c: harsh, severe d: unpleasantly accurate and incisive.

    Honestly, does honesty have to be brutal to be effective? Does the truth have to leave us bloodied and reeling in order for it to have an impact? Even when delivered with kindness and goodwill, truth can be hard to hear. I can think of plenty of instances when people held up a mirror for me, and I didn’t find the reflection particularly attractive. But that was about me, not the honesty of the reflection.

    Thinking back, it seems the times the truth became brutal – whether delivered or received – had to do with a desire to land a punch. The intention was to hurt, or to exercise authority, or deliver bad news in a cruel way.

    Honesty? By all means. Brutal? Well, maybe that’s not really necessary. Perhaps we could start thinking about “compassionately honest conversations.” Or better yet, we could wish for the day when “conversations” won’t need to be modified by the word “honest.”

    -- MAREN

    Tuesday
    Aug122008

    WINNING vs. COLLABORATING 

    The headline in the Aug. 8 Business Week got my attention: “Winning the tough conversations at work.” The column lists four steps to follow in an uncomfortable conversation with someone at work (the example used is a manager talking to a subordinate.)

    It is typical of advice offered as “good management techniques” that in reality are subtle manipulative techniques to get others to do something you want without revealing your intentions. Our bias is that this undermines trust, accountability and true collaboration. 

    The first red flag in the Business Week column was the headline. Collaboration and “winning” are mutually exclusive.

    Step 1 tells managers to talk about commitment to the relationship because “people are more inclined to change their behavior when they appreciate just how much you care about the relationship.” 

    How can a relationship be authentic when people use the relationship to instigate a change in behavior? An authentic conversation means being direct about the business reasons for changing the behavior. 

    Techniques like “filling their emotional tanks” and “replace ‘you’ with ‘we’” also have manipulation at their core. You can see it in the suggested conversation:
    • “John, you are one of the most creative designers I have ever met.”

    • “Let’s talk about we can get all the tasks completed on time” (emphasis added).
    Using praise to “soften” a request/demand for behavior change, or talking about “we” when clearly it is “you” who is being asked to change – well, you get the point. And it’s likely the employee does too. 

    An alternative would be to have an authentic conversation by:
    • Raising the difficult issue with goodwill (“When a client's project is delivered late, it puts this business at risk.”)

    • Acknowledge your own contribution to the situation (“I didn’t stay on top of things the way I should have, and this seems to have contributed to the missed deadline.”)

    • Frame choices for the future (“I have some thoughts on how this could be avoided, and I’d like to hear your ideas on what could be done differently in the future.”)
    Direct, adult-to-adult conversations are a fundamental to creating a culture where people take accountability for their own performance. 

    -- MAREN

    Friday
    Aug012008

    AUTHENTIC CONVERSATIONS ARE ... TRENDY! 

    We were recently working with clients, and we told them that the book would be out on 08.08.08, an auspicious date. One of the clients smiled at me and said, “You know, authentic is very trendy right now.”  It made me laugh.

    When we returned home, I did a search Google search on “trend authentic” and got results on all kinds of things: travel, food, car parts, blogs, and bisexuality(!) 

    Our hope is to get so many people engaging in authentic conversations that what happens is transformational, not trendy. Rather than seeing authentic conversations go the way of the zoot suit, Big Hair Bands and VCRs, we’d like to see them revolutionize our culture the way the Internet has.

    -- MAREN

     

    Tuesday
    May132008

    Have you had an authentic conversation today? 

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!
    YOU WILL BE HEARING FROM US SOON....

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